Abby Cochran, LMSW

Specialties: sex/kink, chronic pain and illness, trauma, EMDR, grief and loss, mindfulness,


Rates: $205 · individual session | $255 · couples session

 
 
 
 

“You might be reading this because you no longer want to be caught in the trap of old patterns that no longer serve you. Whether that’s seeking approval from others or distracting yourself with mindless scrolling to avoid what's bothering you, we sometimes arrive at a moment when hiding isn’t worth it anymore. Perhaps you have reached your capacity, exhausted from pretending everything is fine while feeling like something’s missing inside. Whether it’s a moment of transition or facing something from your past—you don’t have to go through it alone.

From my personal experiences and background in art and somatic therapies, I’ve come to learn how deeply our bodies, creativity, and emotions are tied together in the healing journey. While we may not always “get over” the hard things—we can find our way through them with curiosity, a little humor and authentic connection.

I can help you shine a light on parts of yourself that need more gentle tending and find what you really need - whether that’s permission to make mistakes, process past trauma, or learn how to better care for yourself.”

 
 

Q & A

How do you describe your counseling style?

I take an embodied, experiential approach to therapy, drawing from AEDP principles to create a safe, warm, and emotionally attuned environment for healing. I believe that healing doesn’t happen in isolation; it’s built through deep, authentic connection. I work with clients to help them tap into their emotional and physical experiences, so they can process and transform. I like to focus on being present with your emotions and your body in the moment. I trust that feelings, even difficult ones, carry wisdom, and I guide clients in exploring and understanding them. My background in art and somatic therapies allows me to bring creative, non-verbal ways of accessing and processing emotions into the work. Whether it's through body awareness, movement, or creative expression, I encourage clients to explore what they might not be able to access through words alone. These non-verbal channels are often where deeper healing happens — often without even realizing it at first.

Have you been in therapy yourself?

Yes, I’ve been in therapy and still am! I am incredibly grateful for it. Therapy, particularly with modalities like EMDR, somatic therapies & meditation has been invaluable for me. It’s helped me develop a deeper sense of awareness, confidence, and hope. My relationship to pain (both bodily and emotionally) has shifted — I no longer see it as something to avoid or escape, but rather as something I can learn from, embrace and move through. My time in therapy is partly what led me to become a therapist myself. I know firsthand how powerful it can be to have a supportive, compassionate therapeutic relationship where you can explore, process, and ultimately find healing.

What books have made the biggest impact on your life?

A book that has deeply influenced my work as a therapist is It’s Not Always Depression by Hilary Jacobs Hendel. I recommend this book to those new to therapy and seasoned AEDP practitioners alike. It’s shaped many of the ways I approach healing, especially around the idea of processing and understanding emotions through the body. Yukiko Tominaga’s novel See: Loss. See Also: Love. I cherish this story and I have it in both hard copy and audiobook. It’s a beautiful exploration of how loss, while spiralling and painful, also opens the door to a deep, expansive capacity for love. It’s a playful yet profound reminder of the complexity and richness of human emotion. Maggie Nelson’s The Argonauts is a gorgeous biography with themes of love & relationships, gender & queer theory, bodily experience, and even domestic bliss. Nelson’s writing touches on the limits of language and the profound ways in which we navigate love, sex, art, and transformation — themes that resonated deeply with me when the book was first published in 2015. More recently, I’ve been returning to Mouthful by Matt Starr. His book of poetry is a quick read with a sunny blend of optimism, whimsy, and the playful side of perversion.

 
 
 
 
 
 

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